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		By: Jeanne Boyarsky		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeanne Boyarsky]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Oct 2010 19:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.selikoff.net/2010/10/16/starting-a-voluntary-discussion-group/comment-page-1/#comment-2883&quot;&gt;Nagaraju&lt;/a&gt;.

Sorry.  It is a group internal to the company.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.selikoff.net/2010/10/16/starting-a-voluntary-discussion-group/comment-page-1/#comment-2883">Nagaraju</a>.</p>
<p>Sorry.  It is a group internal to the company.</p>
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		By: Nagaraju		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nagaraju]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Oct 2010 19:44:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is awesome ,i would like to attend to .please provide  the information to connect to the conversations .]]></description>
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		By: Jeanne Boyarsky		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeanne Boyarsky]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks Kathy!  If I had known all this 9 years ago, we would have had a different route to the group too :).]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Kathy!  If I had known all this 9 years ago, we would have had a different route to the group too :).</p>
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		By: Kathy Sierra		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathy Sierra]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Oct 2010 04:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is awesome. I did the same kind of thing when I was at Sun, starting also as a technical book club, but I made every mistake. If yo had written this post about, oh, 9 years ago, things would have gone better for me ; )

This is all excellent advice.  One problem I had was that my expectations were based around my personal interest in certain topics, and was often a little disappointed if others did not Share My Enthusiasm For This Really Crucial Topic. Turned out they felt the same way about me with other topics... I needed to do a better job of recognizing that the group was diverse and had different passions and strengths. I did not work hard enough to see the ways in which everything discussed still fit perfectly within the goals/vision for the group.

Cheers and thanks for this post. (and I just saw the new book you helped with... Huge thanks for that too!)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is awesome. I did the same kind of thing when I was at Sun, starting also as a technical book club, but I made every mistake. If yo had written this post about, oh, 9 years ago, things would have gone better for me ; )</p>
<p>This is all excellent advice.  One problem I had was that my expectations were based around my personal interest in certain topics, and was often a little disappointed if others did not Share My Enthusiasm For This Really Crucial Topic. Turned out they felt the same way about me with other topics&#8230; I needed to do a better job of recognizing that the group was diverse and had different passions and strengths. I did not work hard enough to see the ways in which everything discussed still fit perfectly within the goals/vision for the group.</p>
<p>Cheers and thanks for this post. (and I just saw the new book you helped with&#8230; Huge thanks for that too!)</p>
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